Sometimes in our relentless effort to find the person we love,
we fail to recognize and appreciate the people who love us. We miss out on so many beautiful things simply because we allow
ourselves to be enslaved by our own selfish concerns.
Go for the man of deeds and not for the man of words, for you will
find rewarding happiness, not with the man you love but with the man who loves you more. The best lovers are those capable
of loving from a distance far enough to allow the person to grow but ever too far to feel the love within your being.
To let go of someone doesn't mean you have to stop loving, it only means that
you allow that person to find his own happiness without expecting him to come back. Letting go is not just setting the other
person free, but is also setting yourself free from all the bitterness, hatred, and anger that you keep in your heart. Do
not let the bitterness take away your strength and weaken your faith, and never allow pain to dishearten you; but rather let
yourself grow with wisdom in bearing it.
You may find peace in loving someone from a distance not expecting something
in return. But be careful, for this can sustain life but can never give enough room for us to grow. We can all survive with
just beautiful memories of the past, but real peace and happiness come only with open acceptance of what reality is today.
There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and
beautiful and we just find ourselves so intensely attracted to that person. This feeling soon becomes a part of our everyday
lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels
nothing more for us than just a friendship. We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer, but in the end our
efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves.
You don't have to forget someone you love. What you need to learn is how to
accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself. Believe me, you would be better off giving that
dedication and love to someone more deserving. Don't let your heart run your life, be sensible and let your mind speak for
itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well.
Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better
is coming tomorrow. If you lose love that doesn't mean you failed in love. Cry if you have to, but make sure that tears wash
away the hurt and the bitterness that the past has left with you. Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back to you.
And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime
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